20 ways to be a perfect wife (from Proverbs 31):
1. Give your husband everything he needs.
2. Be good to your husband as long as you live.
3. Work hard with your hands.
4. Take long business trips.
5. Wake up before the roosters.
6. Cook a big breakfast for everyone in the house.
7. Shop for land, buy land, and plant a vineyard.
8. Work hard with strong arms.
9. Make lots of money.
10. Work all night.
11. Make and sell clothes.
12. Help the poor and needy.
13. Make sure your family members dress seasonally.
14. Make your bed well.
15. Wear nice clothes.
16. Make sure your husband gets the respect he deserves.
17. Be strong and dignified and have absolutely no concern about the future.
18. Speak words of wisdom and knowledge.
19. Manage your household well and don’t rest.
20. Look at all the noble things that other women do; then do more!
No one could ever live up to that list of characteristics. That’s why I accept the view that Proverbs 31 is not about an actual wife. I read it as a metaphor, like honey and the water cistern. The perfect wife of Proverbs 31 is wisdom.
(Day 204: Proverbs 30-31)